Lessons In some Facts of Everyday Life: The Gesture of Embracing and Hugging

|Stories of the Lord Abdruschin's Severity When it Comes to Human Physical Interaction

From Master John

 
Humans have distorted many concepts and notions over time by giving them other meanings and other interpretations that are the source of misfortune in their lives. They have introduced habits and new ways of living and perceiving things that they have even developed, that do not conform to the Laws of God governing Creation. What was once considered taboo in society is no longer so and is even encouraged. And over time, we see how these bad habits become accepted as normal by everyone. People do certain things just because it is the norm; everyone does it and it is neither forbidden nor condemned by earthly law.
 
Learning how to live in a family and in society is something very important that everyone should strive to learn, as it helps to maintain good, healthy relationships that foster the well-being of each individual and the flourishing of society. 
 
Hugging and kissing are part of these distorted concepts particularly encouraged by society, which falsely even sees in them a sign of love and progress in morals.
 
In the Afterlife, people live in respect of God’s Will and it is impossible to devote oneself to anything else contrary to It, as can be observed on Earth. People are called to live together in harmony, peace and respect for the Laws of God for the good of each and everyone.
 
In the Afterlife, as on Earth, people meet in different circumstances for different reasons. In the case of Earth, there are various relationships between different people: between a woman and her husband; between a girl or boy and one’s parents; and between a girl or woman and a boy or man.
 
These different relationships can be summarized as being between two young people or adults of different genders: female and male. However, every type of relationship must have a spiritual basis in order to be healthy, pure and supportive.
 
Kissing and hugging are some of those bad practices that humans have introduced into daily life and which bring changes in their way of living. These changes affect the relationship between men and women with consequences that are the source of many of the problems that humanity suffers from without knowing the real causes.
 
In the Afterlife, women and men work together in certain places in accordance with the Laws. Impure thoughts do not exist between people in the Afterlife. This is not because people control themselves so as not to have negative thoughts, but because those in the Afterlife live in PURITY, which makes it impossible for people to have negative thoughts. 
 
Hugs and kisses are practices that humans did not know about when God made them, way before humans introduced these life-ruining changes.
 
Long before these changes, humans lived in groups, in families, in harmony with men who respected women. There was also affection among them, which they expressed toward each other in mutual respect. Children also had affection for their parents, showing it to them in a respectful way in accordance with the Laws, which everyone respected and followed simply and naturally. It wasn’t that the parents didn’t love their children; everything was done naturally and in accordance with God’s Will.
 
So, there was affection within the family, but it was felt and given in a respectable way with modesty. It was with time, with human evolution, that certain things began to change for these people who had lived naturally and peacefully in accordance with the Laws.
 
These changes in various aspects of people’s ways of living began to affect their daily lives over time. Certain situations caused people to lose the joy they had before all these changes that affected various aspects of their lives. There was even suffering in some places.
 
In order to cope with their new lives brought about by these changes, people sought ways to comfort and support each other during the difficult times they were experiencing. Children, who had previously lived simply and naturally with their parents in joy and harmony, were also affected by the effects of these changes.
 
The children sought support and comfort from the adults closest to them, in their environment, where they could find refuge. The first of these adults were naturally their parents.
 
Children would therefore take refuge with their parents whenever they needed comfort and support. The parents would take them in their arms to comfort them. This gesture, this act, had not often taken place until then, and was not something done all the time. It was a gesture that made sense to comfort children in distress. 
 
It was a sign of affection from parents to their children, who did not understand the difficulties they were experiencing, as a result of the changes in their lifestyle. Verbal communication was limited at that time, so this was one of the ways people communicated.
 
Children did not understand the parents’ explanations of the situation they were experiencing, so to calm them down the parents looked for ways to show affection during those difficult times.
 
The way parents showed affection to their children back then is not comparable with the way parents show affection to their children today. In those ancient times, people lived differently, and even in the way children showed affection to their parents, there were limits.
 
As human evolved, everything changed. People began to disregard God’s Will in some things.
 
Hugs and kisses were gestures, acts that were not done just anyhow and anytime; they were reserved for a specific situations and reasons.
 
It was only later that people brought about changes in the practice and meaning of these gestures and acts of embracing and kissing. They developed other ideas behind these gestures of hugging that had nothing to do with affection, which was to support, comfort, or consolation in certain difficult situations.
 
It was no longer a limited, healthy display of affection from parents towards their children, who took refuge in them for support and comfort during difficult times. Adults themselves also began to hug each other in other circumstances during encounters.
 
This marked the beginning of the introduction and abuse of hugging and kissing gestures in adult life and in life in general, replacing the usual way of greeting each other.
 
People experience moments of distress when they need support, comfort or consolation from others, but such expressions should occur solely for that reason, that cause, and at the moment when a person is in need, showing respect for the individual who is in distress.
 
Over time, and with the development of the intellect, hugs and kisses became a mode of greeting. People no longer greeted each other in the way they used to, in a noble, modest and respectful way, but began to embrace. Friends no longer greeted each other by shaking hands; they hug each other, supposedly to show and confirm their friendship.
 
A married woman cannot hug another man and claim that she is not doing anything wrong; that it is merely a way of greeting. People hug each other, thinking of it as a simple gesture of greeting, but they are unaware of what happens when two people of the opposite sex embrace and kiss. They do not see what is happening in the world of thoughts at the moment of the embrace – a gesture that they think is trivial, innocent.  They are sinning in thought.
 
Many people sin in thought at the moment of greeting each other with a hug or a kiss. Partners who are in a relationship and who love each other and live together can indeed kiss. But neither of them should, under any circumstances, allow themselves to kiss any other person and then justify and defend their actions afterwards, claiming it is just a simple greeting.
 
A married man who embraces a woman he likes very much, you already know what kind of thoughts are in his head. It’s easy to understand that at the moment he embraces this woman or girl he likes, something must be going on inside him, unless you’re a hypocrite. Many people often sin in thought without realizing it.
 
There are those occasions when people pretend to show affection to others who are in moments of distress, of pain. But in most of these cases, where there are hugs and kisses, some people have inappropriate, negative thoughts that disrespect others during these embraces. They act wrongly, yet claim to be offering help or affection. They say that it is just a greeting, a sign of affection, even though they know they have acted badly in their thoughts.
 
Some agents of darkness take advantage of these moments of embrace, hug, cuddle and kiss to try to transmit malevolent, negative energies to people.
 
The people they hold tightly against themselves during the embrace think it is a sign of affection, when in fact they are being harmed by the hugging or kissing.
 
We see these fathers who start kissing their daughters on the mouth from a young age. The daughter becomes accustomed to this gesture of her father kissing her on the mouth. She grows up convinced that kissing someone on the mouth is perfectly normal, as it is something her father has been doing to her since she was young. She will find it normal to kiss someone on the mouth. She will develop this bad habit instilled by her father. She will not hesitate, if the opportunity arises, to kiss a boy or a man on the mouth. Some girls even provoke such opportunities.  
 
As a result, many children are abused because of this bad kissing habit. Some young girls become attached to boys because they seek and want to have more affection through kissing. The father arouses these sensations in his daughter, which she mistakes for affection and which she believes she can only find by kissing a boy on the mouth. How many young girls end up pregnant because they are used to their father’s embraces and hugs, which they consider normal, and in moments when they affection, they give themselves to any boy.
 
Some women have the karma of having been in prostitution in one of their past lives. When they are born into a particular family in this life, they bring this karma with them.
 
If one of these women happens to be incarnated in a family where the father and brothers already have the bad habit of kissing the girls and each other, this can awaken in her a link with prostitution from a past life. She may end up in prostitution again, and instead of seeking to redeem her karma, she will make it even heavier.
 
Girls who find themselves in this situation unknowingly have a karma of having been prostitutes in a past life that they must seek to redeem.
 
The father will not help the girl to unknot her karma; in fact, he may contribute to and encourage the awakening of this past-life defect in her. She could even start associating with men at a young age, which is why it is necessary to avoid the bad habits of hugging and kissing children in general.
 
There are those moments and cases when parents can show affection for their children. For example, if a child falls down and is in a lot of pain and goes to his mother, the mother could hold them tightly to comfort them. This is a gesture of affection is meaningful in the context of the child being in pain and needing his mother’s comfort. This hug is not for all situations, and especially not to kiss on the mouth.
 
Parents must do everything they can to avoid getting their children used to these gestures, these actions that are bad for their lives. Adults must teach their children good manners from an early age.
 
The Light does not accept the general abuse that has become routine of the gesture of affection of hugging, of taking in one’s arms someone who is in distress and who just needs to be comforted, consoled. Let the greeting not change to hugs and kisses at no time.
 
Respect must always be maintained between people wherever they meet. Do not consider a habit that is not in accordance with the Will of God. There are many good ways to greet people. But people complicate matters by doing certain things that do not elevate them spiritually.
 
And even in the cases where people are in distress, a person’s presence and the advice or information they can provide is enough to offer comfort. Hugs and kisses are not necessary for comforting someone.
 
Let children live as children instead of teaching them, accustoming them to everything that can harm them later in life. How many cases of abuse and incest between brothers and sisters, and between fathers and daughters because of exaggerated and misplaced affection the father, who go so far as to abuse their daughters in intimate acts. All of this can be avoided by eliminating the causes.
 
Helpful teachings on how to lead a lifestyle that is noble are available.
 
It is not by embracing or allowing yourself to be embraced that you give or receive affection in your life; it is by a good way of living that people will learn to respect you and avoid hugs and kisses.

Here are a few brief sequences from the Lord’s life with His family and the people in His Circle. He was more severe with people He did not know. He had a noble way of greeting people.

MUCH STRENGTH.
 

STORIES OF THE LORD

1.

The Lord could do certain things on His own at the age of three. He did not need help from his brothers or his older sister. Despite his young age, He refused any assistance. He NEVER wanted his feet to be without socks. Whenever he forgot something as a child, the Essential Beings would remind him with signs that he knew well, and he would respond. He was exceptionally intelligence.

EMMA, the Lord’s mother, who had received a good education from her parents, did not behave like other women. She raised her children as her own mother had raised her. She did not kiss her children to show her affection. She raised them normally.

It took her a long time to conceive again after ALVIN. She would welcome the Lord to Earth a few years later after Alvin’s birth. Despite following each other in order of birth, there was a significant age gap between Alvin and the Lord. Alvin was the Lord’s older brother and was born just before Him.

The significant age gap between their births was due to the Light’s for the Lord’s arrival on Earth. The Light wanted to prepare Emma, the Lord’s mother, and especially her Bridge of Reception, for the Lord’s arrival.

Alvin was the one who often took care of the Lord, who, even as a small child, refused to allow His older sister to take care of Him. Even if Alvin was not at home, the Lord would wait until he arrived to take care of Him. Alvin was also the one who cut the Lord’s hair when He was young, until he left the family home. In Alvin’s absence, it was His friend WILFRED who cut His hair during His younger years.

The Lord would eventually learned to cut His own hair so that He would not have to depend on anyone else. He always wanted to take care of Himself. Even when He was travelling, He would style His own hair. This was made possible with the help of a few essential items.

There was hardly any dialogue or contact between the Lord’s father and his children. They spent more time with their mother, Emma. For this reason, the Lord was particularly close to his older sister.

The Lord attended family gatherings, but He did not behave like the other children. He would stay in a quiet place or close to his mother, who knew Him well and understood His attitude towards people.

During these gatherings, there were no hugs between people, no embraces with the Lord’s father, mother, sister and brothers. From an early age, the Lord refused all physical contact. Even at school, He disliked certain things, and the educators were well aware of His attitude towards people. He was hard and severe when He was young.

In certain situations, His gaze conveyed a clear message that His friends could easily understand if He did not want something that was being done or was about to happen. The rowdy children did not like Him because He did not respond to their requests.

The Lord had His own respectful way of greeting people. Over time, He changed this way of greeting people. He avoided hugging and kissing people. He had a way of preventing certain people from coming to hug Him. He knew certain people’s tendencies and prepared Himself accordingly. He made sure that these people did not find the opportunity or the way to get to Him.

Those in His inner circle understood His approach of greeting people, including children. They did not approach Him closely unless He first approached them. He would hold certain children by the hand to bless them and transmit His Force to them. He did not pray for these children while holding their hands. He prayed for children and sick people in a way that was not done openly, but discreetly. Even the way He sat near people was marked by great reserve and respect. Some people who did not know Him found Him strange. He fixed His gaze on the people to whom He wanted to transmit the Force. He had His own way of looking at people.

The house where the Lord was born is a place of great significance. It has a powerful Bridge of Light and also the Force of Light present where the Lord came to Earth.

Wherever the Lord set foot, He left the Force of Light in each of these places. Some people were healed of their illnesses after He left these places. He did not want people to follow Him because they knew what He was doing, but because they believed in His spiritual teachings.

2.

While travelling, the Lord was travelling encountered a woman named Catharina on the road. She was prostitute who wore revealing outfits exposing her body and attracted the attention of men.

The Lord noticed that the men passing by turned around to look at her. He asked His Guide, who provided Him with information about Catharina. The Lord decided to help Catharina become a true woman, one who fears God.

Catharina, who was walking ahead of the Lord, entered a clothing shop. The Lord followed her into the shop, pretending to look at the clothes while actually looking for a way to make contact with her and offer her help.

The shop was not large, and everyone in it could easily see each other. That is how Catharina noticed the Lord, a man dressed in a noble manner. She turned around in the shop to get a better look at the Lord. She did not know that the Lord was aware of everything she was doing. He was alone in the shop but surrounded by Helpers and the Essentials.

Catharina decided to approach the Lord and start talking to Him, although her deepest desire was to seduce Him. She knew how she would act. The area around the Lord was under the control of the Essentials, who were watching her. In the store, Catharina turned to the aisle opposite the Lord. She walked confidently towards Him, pretending to look at the clothes.

When she arrived at the spot where she saw the Lord standing, she considered moving in front of Him and kissing Him.

However, when she reached the spot where she had intended to carry out her plan, the Lord was no longer there; He had disappeared. Catharina was quite frightened by what she had just experienced. She looked around the store and saw that everyone was in there except for the Lord. She began to move around, looking for the Lord in other areas. When she arrived at another part of the store, she looked around and, to her great surprise, she saw the Lord in the same spot, still looking at the clothes. She was astonished to see Him in the same spot where she had wanted to kiss Him, but where He had vanished.

Catharina rushed once again towards the Lord with the same intention of kissing Him. As before, when she arrived at the spot, the Lord was not there; she could not see Him. She found this strange. She decided to follow this man until she learned more about Him.

Once again, she moved a little further away to ensure and understand what she was experiencing. She looked around to see what was happening, but this time, she saw nothing when she looked behind her and around her.

At one point, she saw the Lord still looking at the clothes. He had moved from where He had been before. The woman became even more frightened. 

The Lord smiled to avoid frightening Catharina even more. She was petrified, unable to act, as she had intended to kiss the Lord. Fear was in her eyes as she looked at the Lord before her. The Lord greeted her by name: “Hello, Catharina.” She replied, “How do you know my name?” The Lord simply smiled. Catharina fell to her knees at the Lord’s feet, crying. The Lord asked her to get up because He wanted to help her; He wanted to teach her how to behave properly. She could not say anything; tears were streaming from her eyes.

The woman from the shore, the one who worked there, approached to see what was happening, but Catharina told her that nothing bad was happening between them. The woman insisted in asking what was going on, but Catharina insisted that everything was fine.

Catharina stood up, thanking the Lord for being on her path. Catharina asked for an opportunity to meet the Lord, as she had something to talk to Him about. The Lord was travelling and did not have much time. However, He invited Catharina to a restaurant next door to talk, and she gladly accepted.

Once at the restaurant, Catharina told the Lord about her life. She had long wanted to leave her life of men behind, but she always fell back into the habit of seducing men and having relationships with them. She tells the Lord that she saw a luminous woman in a dream who gave her spiritual teachings and advice, but she had not heeded them.

Catharina asked the Lord for forgiveness for the harm she had intended to do to Him. The Lord simply looked her in the eyes, transmitting His Force to her. Catharina recounted her childhood and her life on the streets, crying as she spoke. The Lord asked Catharina for her address so they could communicate by mail. He held Catharina’s hand while praying that the Light Force would be with her. Catharina did not want to leave the Lord. She wanted to receive teachings that could help her to change her way of life. The Lord told her that she would soon become a servant of the Light on a mission.

From the day of her encounter with the Lord, Catharina changed her way of life. She burned all her clothes that were not noble and moved to live elsewhere, to a place where she was not known, in order to avoid encounters with the men she had seduced and who always wanted her. She left her sister in charge of watching her mail and forwarding it to her new address.

The first letter she received was from the Lord, and she was delighted to read His spiritual teachings and advice. Catharina had kept in touch with the Lord through letters. She would become a member of a Christian community in that city. Since her encounter with the Lord, she had not had any contact with men. She lived alone.

After three years of spiritual preparation, she became a servant of the Light on a mission in the community to help widows and young girls.

The Lord knew that Catharina was a servant of the Light on a mission on Earth. She had been raped by her father, but instead of showing her affection, her mother kicked her out of the house. Lacking housing and financial means, she began prostituting herself to make a living.

As she continued to prostitute herself, it became an addiction she could not give up. She contacted an occultist who initiated her in the hope that she would be able to seduce men more easily. She destroyed marriages by seducing men and having sex with them.

When she became interested in the Lord, she called on her master of magic, but her incantations failed to attract Him. He would disappear whenever her master was present. It was a failure for both Catharina and her master of magic. She could not understand how her master had failed. This led her to kneel before the Lord, whom she found greater than her master of magic.

With the help of the Christian community, she was able to sever her ties with magic and her magic master. The Lord kept sending her the Force that helped her overcome her problem with her attraction to men. She used to drink and smoke heavily, but through the grace she had in seeing the Lord, she gave up everything to serve the Light. She repented in order to serve the Light in her life. She refused to marry because of her inclination as a seductress towards men. She preferred to remain single and serve God.

Catharina could not marry; she had unresolved karma with men, but instead of seeking to untangle her ties to the past, she reinforced them even more. However, she had the grace to meet the Lord, who helped her through His teachings.

3.

(3) The Lord knew a couple called TORBEN and HILDA. Hilda had trouble conceiving. After seven years of marriage without a child, they received God’s grace and had a son, whom they named JORG. When the time came, they sent him to school.

Jorg was a very intelligent boy and was not troublesome. Some students at school did not like him. He always succeeded with high marks. Some troublemaking students planned to harm Jorg.

One Thursday, some students had stayed behind after school to study. Jorg was one of those students who were continuing their lessons after school. Since his parents were working, he would walk to and back from school alone. The unruly students had left school, but they did not go home; instead, they waited for Jorg on the road he took to return home.

When classes ended, Jorg took the path home. He encountered some of these troublemakers along the way, who blocked his path. One of them, carrying a stick, struck Jorg on the neck with it and Jorg he fell to the ground. They tied him up with a rope and threw him into a deep hole far from any houses, where his cries for help would go unheard.

That evening, when Jorg’s parents returned home, they could not find him. They went to ask his friends in the neighbourhood, but they had not seen him. They waited until evening, still with no news of Jorg. In the hole where the troublemaking children had thrown him, Jorg was stung by insects until he had no energy left and passed out.

The Lord was in His garden when He heard a small voice calling for help. He listened carefully and realized it was Jorg calling for help. Jorg had fainted, but his spirit remained alert. It was his spirit that was connected to the Light that was moving towards the place where there was the Force.

And as the Lord was in contact with Jorg and his parents, He was also connected to Jorg’s spirit, which was alert and asking for help. The Lord sent the Essential Beings to that place to protect Jorg. They found Jorg unconscious in that hole. Someone had to come and get the child out.

The Essentials did their job of informing Jorg’s parents, who were driving around at night looking for him, through signs. They were guided by the Essentials until they arrived at the place where Jorg was in the hole. Jorg’s father, who had a torch, looked into the hole, but could not see anything. However, Jorg’s mother insisted that he look harder, all the way down, and there they discovered Jorg’s motionless body.

Jorg’s father did not hesitate for a second; he climbed down into the hole to reach him. Jorg had wounds all over his body – he had been bitten by insects in the hole. 

His mother screamed in horror, but his father remained calm. They took Jorg to the hospital. He was admitted to intensive care. He had been bitten by some poisonous insects. He needed urgent treatment. Jorg did not speak. Jorg’s father stayed at the hospital, while Jorg’s mother drove their car all night to the Lord’s house, arriving in the early hours of the morning. She did not want to disturb the Lord and his family.

She fell asleep in her car until morning.

Jorg’s mother went to knock on the Lord’s door. He was already up and ready to accompany her to the hospital. She was surprised that the Lord already knew about Jorg, since they had not told anyone. The Lord said nothing, but asked the woman to go and see Jorg.

When they arrived at the hospital, the doctors told Jorg's mother that it was too late, as Jorg was so badly infected that he could not survive and that there was nothing more they could do – Jorg was dying.

The Lord asked to be allowed to be alone with Jorg. The doctor objected, but at the insistence of the parents, he gave in and said that it would be done according to their wishes, but on the condition that Jorg remain in his hospital bed.

The Lord rushed to Jorg, who was sleeping in his hospital bed. He did not want to waste any time knowing His Guide told Him that Jorg was beginning to detach himself little by little from his body.

The Lord took Jorg in His arms, lifted him up and held him tightly to His chest with His eyes closed. He prayed and felt the Force within Him intensifying with each word, and He also felt His feet lift off the ground.

When He finished His prayer and opened His eyes, He saw Jorg looking at Him with his eyes ope,. He was happy to see Jorg alive. He held Jorg even tighter against His chest. He put Jorg back on his bed and went to call his parents to come and see him alive. They were overjoyed. They knew the Lord well and could not doubt about what had happened to heal Jorg.

Jorg stayed in hospital for only three days and then went home. He recounted his accident, denouncing all the pupils who had been involved in what had happened to him and who had almost taken his life. Jorg’s parents changed schools for him.

They wasted no time in going to see the Lord. What surprised the parents most was seeing Jorg, a child, kneeling at the feet of the Lord, thanking God. He kept saying, “THANK YOU, MY LORD AND KING.” The Lord smiled and asked Jorg to come and sit near Him and told him not to forget what He had done when He prayed for him. He asked Jorg to think about doing the same thing when he began his mission to help people. He told Jorg’s parents that he was a servant of the Light on a mission, and that he would also perform miracles in his mission on Earth.

He had saved Jorg because He knew that he would serve the Light on Earth and that, thanks to the Force of God within Jorg, he would save many people. This is what the Lord had seen in Jorg and what had motivated Him to save him; for, through Jorg, in his mission, many people would find healing.

Jorg’s parents did not understand this revelation about their son.

When Jorg reached the age of 27, he began his mission. He went to hospitals to pray for people. The sick were healed when Jorg laid his hands on them. People called Jorg “The Miracle Man”.

He moved to America, where he carried out his mission.

The Lord knew Jorg’s spirit and raised him from the dead. He had been given a Force by the Lord that could free him from the venom of various insect bites while he was in the hole. When the Lord embraced Jorg, the Lord’s Force acted like a vacuum cleaner or purifier, removing all the poisons that had accumulated in his body. The Lord took onto Himself all that was wrong in Jorg, all the pain, and this caused Jorg to heal and wake up from his coma.

The Lord had acted in this way because, during His Mission, He sometimes had to save those servants who had a great mission to help many people. He saw that Jorg’s mission was so great that he deserved this healing. The Lord aimed more at those people who were going to be healed of their illnesses through the servant Jorg.

Jorg was targeted by the powers of the darkness, which used the troublemaking students to harm him. The plan of the darkness was to prevent Jorg from carrying out his great mission on Earth. Fortunately, the Lord was on Earth, and in the same city as Jorg’s parents. He had saved the lives of Jorg and many others.