Divorce

23.08.2025
The Light, through Its Love, constantly aims to support human spiritual evolution. There are many spiritual teachings and words of advice, but not all of them necessarily come from the Word of God that emanates from the Light. In order to discern the true teachings that come from this Word, it is advisable to approach them with an open mind and intuition. Rather than immediately rejecting a spiritual teaching, it is better to examine it carefully to determine whether it comes from the Light.

Some individuals, when they receive a spiritual message, tend to reject it without careful analysis, which reflects a lack of discernment and can hinder their personal development. Overdevelopment of the intellect can lead to perceiving these teachings from a predominantly negative perspective, thus preventing intuitive understanding. It is therefore essential to focus on the content of the teachings rather than on the identity of the person who transmitted them, in order to identify the message that the Light wishes to communicate.

While the source of a teaching may sometimes be known, doubts often remain as to its veracity. Salvation is a personal journey, and each individual must use their own discernment rather than relying solely on the opinions of others, to decide whether or not to believe in spiritual teachings. Furthermore, there are individuals who are sceptical about spiritual matters and who can negatively influence the perceptions of others when sharing.

Regarding marriage, it is specified that this is an earthly institution. In the Afterlife, there is a Temple of Light, where the Elders spiritually unite individuals who are destined to fulfil a common mission. Union of individuals formed in this Temple are blessed and receive Divine Force to walk together on Earth according to their destiny. Sometimes these individuals meet on Earth and live their union without fully realizing it, while others intuitively perceive the special nature of their relationship, marked by a strong mutual attraction and genuine love.

Darkness opposes the union of people who are meant to be together: those who are bound by genuine love who are attracted to each other and love each other with true love.

Darkness seeks to separate couples who are meant for each other, despite the Divine Force that unites them. It instigates small conflicts which, under its influence, escalates and can lead to separation or divorce.

The Light supports the woman who has the Force of God. It is up to the woman to protect her relationship, her home and her family with the force that God has given her. The man has his responsibilities, but the woman has more force than the man within a household. Misunderstandings can arise from the darkness that wants to interfere in everything that happens in a relationship where there is true love.

Men who want to dominate women want to be right about everything, even when they are wrong about issues that arise in their household. Believing themselves to be superior to women, they will attempt to be right in arguments and disputes.

Women often have to remain silent in the face of certain men who dominate their wives. There are also violent men who go so far as to raise their hands to their wives, lacking humility.

For a couple destined to stay together, harmony and true love are essential. Even when difficulties arise, divorce or separation should not be considered as the first solution. This is not desirable for couples who are meant to be together. Problems may arise, but you should not immediately consider divorce or separation in order to improve your life. A couple who are meant to be together should NEVER separate just to live better, each on their own; never.

A couple whose union is meant to last generally has no interest in living separately in order to improve their personal quality of life.

This is especially true of couples who have already lived together and are destined to stay together. Their relationship is already established through specific bonds, and separation or divorce would mean breaking those bonds, which could have significant consequences for them, particularly with regard to their previous commitments. Separation breaks deep bonds, leaving a lasting wound that hinders inner peace.

Even when rebuilding their lives, those affected will remain scarred by this suffering and will have to answer for it before the Judges of the Afterlife.

It is often the men who fail to see what is spiritual and important for a couple destined to be together. They want to do as they please by divorcing their wives to be with younger, more beautiful women. Yet, divorce does not solve the problem by replacing your wife with someone supposedly more attractive. Men always find trivial, non-spiritual reasons to justify their bad behaviour towards their wives.

You made a vow, in the Afterlife and on Earth, before the church and your family, to live together for the rest of your lives, but how can a woman become so unbearable with age that a man seeks a younger woman to continue his life? Don’t men age too? Darkness prevents couples who love each other from living together in harmony and love; it always seeks to separate them while they are on Earth. You must have the discernment to understand that it is not normal for a man to change wives at his whim. This is not spiritual evolution, it is spiritual decline.
 
Readers of the Grail Message are not spared these problems of divorce, even though they have valuable teachings and advice on this subject in the Grail Message. However, they do not follow this advice. They cannot come to terms with abandoning their lifestyle of having several wives. Some deceive young women by telling them they will marry them just to have an intimate relationship with them. Those who have multiple wives encourage polygamy and other practices that are not in accordance with the Will of God, and they do this while proudly displaying the Grail Cross they wear.

Spiritual teachings state that a man can only have one wife and must follow the Will of God rather than the will of men or his family. Incarnation into a family is the result of Divine Will, not the choice of parents.

Marrying a woman is not just a matter of the heart or a family choice; it is God’s Will. Do not seek to marry a beautiful woman, as this increases your risk of divorce and other problems. A woman’s beauty should not be a criterion for choosing a wife. Strive to develop your intuition and ask the Light to guide you to a woman who will be able to serve God by walking beside you throughout your life.

A woman’s appearance and beauty should not be criteria for choosing a spouse, because their appearance changes with age. Rather, it is a woman’s inner qualities that matter and are more important in the Eyes of God. A true woman is a one who is spiritually alive in her home and who protects her family and her husband. Divorce is not good for couples who separate. They may appear to be doing well, even when they are facing insurmountable problems.

The situation is particularly delicate when a couple going through a divorce has children. Children are often the most affected by separation, sometimes more than the parents. It can be difficult to establish parental harmony when the children’s well-being is compromised. Children may wonder about the reasons for their situation and may feel a certain unease. Furthermore, some parents do not consider the long-term consequences of divorce for their children. In some cases, divorce can contribute to social difficulties for some young people later in life. However, it is important to emphasize that every family situation is unique.

For some couples, particularly those experiencing domestic violence or deep-seated discord, separation may be necessary to ensure the safety and well-being of those involved. For instance, in situations where physical violence is present, the victims must be able to protect themselves and take the necessary measures to ensure their safety. Nevertheless, it is essential to approach these issues with discernment, taking into account the unique circumstances of each family and prioritizing open communication and appropriate support.
 
It is often impossible for a violent man to change his behaviour when he lives with the same woman. Entities enter into this relationship, pushing the man to beat his wife repeatedly. It is only by choosing another woman that the man can change, rarely with the same woman. Violence against women is more than a crime before God.

Men who are accustomed to raising their hands against women at any time will be punished by the Light. They will be judged in the Temple in the Afterlife, before the Judges for their acts of violence. You may hit your wife in the privacy of your bedroom, but you do not know that the Light sees you mistreating her. You will be judged and punished.

Worry is the enemy of the soul. Some couples have irreconcilable differences. The woman is an alcoholic. She does not fulfil her role as a wife in her home, she drinks heavily and behaves badly in front of everyone. A man who loves his wife will do everything to maintain harmony in the household, but this is impossible when his wife is addicted to alcohol. In this case, however, there may be a solution instead of rushing into divorce and leaving the woman alone with her problem, which puts her at risk of falling victim to the darkness and its agents who want to destroy her and her home. The man will live in worry.

Do not rush into divorce when there is a misunderstanding in your relationship, because you do not know the true origin of your problem.

When there is conflict or disagreement in a relationship, the darkness approaches to make the situation worse, and if you are not careful and vigilant, you may take the easiest way out and get divorced, because there is no harmony. This would be a mistake.

The darkness also sends women who are its agents to destroy homes. They come with the intention of separating couples by taking the place of the other woman. Before asking for a divorce, you must think about it several times. Do not divorce in a fit of anger, because when you come to your senses, you will regret the action you took in anger. Some men make the mistake of hastily divorcing their wives and, after years, regret it when they realize that the ex-wife is happy living alone with her children. They suffer because of another woman.

Women who are abandoned by their husbands for another woman should not rush into remarrying, but should instead take care of their children and seek God’s Blessing. You cannot be sure that the man you are going to marry will love children who are not his own. He may love the woman, but not the children, who may end up being abandoned. Many people mistakenly believe that remarriage is a solution, but often it ends up being worse than before. For every problem, there is a lasting solution, and know that the Light is there for you. Divorce is not the answer.

Albert and Audrey's Story


Albert had feelings for Audrey from a young age. At twenty, he was in a committed relationship with seventeen-year-old Audrey, despite their age difference and youth. Albert lived with his older brother, Honoré, while Audrey lived with her parents. After finishing secondary school, Albert moved to another city to pursue his university studies, as his brother wished. So he left Audrey, who stayed with her family. The separation lasted six years, during which time they kept in touch by exchanging letters regularly.

Following the death of Audrey’s father, the family’s main breadwinner, the family’s situation became difficult. As the eldest child, Audrey considered supporting her relatives by looking for a source of income. She began dating a young man while maintaining contact with Albert. This young man, who was employed, provided her with financial support.

Meanwhile, Albert finished his studies and got a good job in the city. He then asked Audrey to join him. Audrey’s mother asked Albert’s family to guarantee that their daughter would be living with a man whose family was aware of their relationship. The two families organized a meeting to get to know each other better.

Audrey then moved to the city to live with her fiancé, who had already found them a place to live. After two months of living together, Audrey started to feel uneasy, so they consulted a doctor. Tests revealed that Audrey was three months pregnant, despite having only been there for two months. Upon returning home, they had a discussion to clarify the situation. It took Audrey a long time to tell Albert the truth. Despite this revelation, Albert chose to continue their life together as normal: they went out and saw friends together, although Audrey felt uncomfortable. Albert, for his part, seemed happy and was reluctant to end their relationship, grappling with feelings of guilt at the idea of leaving her.

When Audrey was five months pregnant, Albert had a significant dream. He saw his late father dressed in the noble clothes he usually wore when he was alive. His father kindly expressed his joy at seeing him united with Audrey. Looking at Albert, his father confided that he had been looking for a family to be reborn into, but could not find a suitable one, and was therefore delighted to be able to return to his own family. He then advised Albert to take care of Audrey during her pregnancy before disappearing from the dream. When he awoke, Albert told Audrey about his dream. This episode coincided with the baby’s first movements. After that, Albert no longer worried about the pregnancy, convinced that the baby was the reincarnation of his deceased father. Audrey gave birth to a boy whom they named JOHN.

Two years after they started living together, Albert was involved in a serious accident. On his way to work one day, the train derailed, fracturing his spine and preventing him from working for a year. Albert and Audrey remained together for several years without having any more children. John was the couple’s only son. He grew up thinking of Albert his biological father. Albert, meanwhile, saw John as the embodiment of his own deceased father. For Albert, Audrey was his destiny.

The Light did not want Albert to separate from Audrey. Albert, Audrey and John led a harmonious life together. Albert expressed his gratitude to Audrey, considering the presence of his late father with him to be a divine grace. He avoided making a mistake by deciding to stay with his fiancé, Audrey, even though she was pregnant by another man.

John’s biological father died of prostate cancer. When Audrey learned of the situation, she chose not to intervene, guided by her intuition and concerned about avoiding family conflict. She felt it was best to remain silent in order to protect John. John’s arrival on Earth was motivated by a desire to be close to Albert, who was the driving force behind their relationship. John had no particular connection with his biological father. Despite the accident that left John disabled, Audrey strove to respect Divine Will and remained by his side.

Alice's Story

ALICE was a very pretty young girl. Boys liked her a lot, but she refused all contact and relationships with men. One Sunday, on her way home from visiting her aunt, she met a boy who threatened and raped her. She cried when she got home and told her mother everything that had happened.

 Some time later, Alice realized she was pregnant. Her mother wanted to know who the boy was, but Alice herself did not know. Alice gave birth to a little girl who looked very much like her. She became even more afraid of men. She studied medicine.

After graduating, she worked in a large city hospital. Although her boss was well liked by her colleagues, she didn’t want to go near him. She felt a repulsion that she didn’t understand.

One evening, while she was working, her boss called her over to give her instructions as he wanted to leave. When Alice entered his office, she got goosebumps. The man was looking at her, his eyes downcast. The man who had called her spoke to her, his eyes downcast. Alice didn’t understand. He asked her questions about her family. She replied that she had a daughter but was not married. The man asked her how old her daughter was, and Alice answered, and that was when her boss remembered that he had raped a young girl.

He asked Alice if she had a photo of her daughter. It was a strange question, but as she respected her boss, she went to get a photo of her daughter from her bag to show him. He smiled and said that her daughter, Odette, looked like her. From that day on, Alice received gifts for Odette from her boss. She thought he was giving her these gifts out of courtesy, unaware that he was the man who had raped her. After raping her, he disappeared into the darkness. Unbeknown to Alice, he had been following her for a long time waiting for the opportunity to rape her.

When the man saw Alice in his office, she was still beautiful but she did not like her boss. She had approached him out of respect. It was purely for work. The man was married with children.

Alice had married Yves, but she continued to receive gifts from her boss for Odette. Yves disapproved, but Alice explained that her boss had helped her a lot by paying for Odette’s education. Her salary wasn’t enough to support her parents and pay for Odette’s education.

The man had several times decided to separate from his wife in order to marry Alice, but he could not do it because he did not want to cause problems for his family or risk further alienating Alice and Odette.

He loved seeing Alice and, from time to time, Odette, who he knew was his daughter. He had three sons with his wife, but Odette was his only daughter, and as beautiful as Alice had been at her age. Like her mother Alice, she had completed her university studies in medicine. She was a young 24-year-old doctor. She had been hired at the hospital by her biological father, whom she believed to be a family friend who had supported her since childhood.

Alice had been raped at the age of sixteen. Bernard took great joy in seeing his daughter Odette at work. He protected his marriage, his reputation and Odette by behaving discreetly. However, he assumed his responsibility by helping Alice for Odette’s sake. It wasn’t easy for Alice, a young girl with a child living with her parents. In this case, Bernard could not divorce his wife to marry Alice, whom he loved. Moreover, Alice would move far away from him and would cut off all contact because of the rape that had turned her life upside down.

Bernard had avoided a lot of damage by not giving in to his feelings and his love for Alice, which he had felt since childhood. Bernard liked girls, but after raping Alice, he left his parents’ house and took refuge at his uncle’s, far away from her. He loved Alice, who passed by their house, but he was too afraid to approach her. It was his love for Alice that had driven him to rape her.

KEEP YOUR THOUGHTS PURE.

 
 

Supplementary Reading from The GRAIL MESSAGE:

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Of Light Helpers and Spiritual Helpers

Part of response from Master John to a question on the Lecture “Man’s Spirit Guide”, Resonances 1:46.
August 3, 2022

There is a great confusion that is fostered by many people who fail to make that necessary and important difference in life between things that are spiritual and those that are of a dark nature. The confusion is greater and more difficult for human beings to detect because darkness only copies what is Light which it hijacks in a very subtle way in the way it uses it for evil by making many believe it is spiritual. Darkness has never created anything. It is the source of all evil.
Demons are creatures of the imagination, of people's thoughts. Demons, dark entities are not creatures of God….

These demons and dark entities are found in the environment of people who are on Earth and who open themselves up to them through their lifestyle. They will always seek to strongly influence the thoughts of these people in order to manipulate them.

It is not only demons that can strongly influence and have a strong hold on people who give them an opening. There are also intelligent Entities who can go very far in their ability to influence people, they are able to establish communication with those people who give them an opening through their lifestyle and whom they will manipulate.

Their ability to influence and hold these people will make these people believe that they have a connection with the spiritual world, with the beings of Light. It is mainly these negative thinking people who attract these demons and dark entities into their lives who will manipulate them, and they believe that they are in communication with Helpers or Spiritual and Light beings in the Beyond.  And yet it is the very intelligent demons and dark entities around them that manipulate them. They have a way of reading people's minds which they can powerfully influence and manipulate.

Demons, dark entities surround people, always trying to influence their thoughts to manipulate them well, to have a strong hold on them and to make them believe in something spiritual.

To be in contact and communication with the Light, a human being needs to be open to the Light in his or her way of life to attract the Light. The Helpers are in contact and communicate with human beings through the Channel chosen by the Light for this mission. The Channel must be open and pure for the Light to use to transmit spiritual teachings and guidance to people.

The Helpers are in the Beyond. When a person is in contact with Helpers, he or she is also in contact with the Light. The person may believe that he or she is communicating only with the Helper without being aware of the presence of other Helpers who are also in contact with him or her, always to help in some way. Helpers always work as a team, even if only one is in communication with the person being helped. The Light does not reveal all that It does….

A Light Helper plays a very important role in people's lives. The Light Helper is the one who activates the natural protection of people at birth. It is the job of the Light Helper at the birth of a baby to activate the natural protection of the baby that has just been born. She is called the Light Helper because she is all covered with a flood of Light.

The Light Helper is in touch with the Spirit of a person for whom he/she also activates his/her intuition. It is a Light envoy for the natural protection of people, a protection that encompasses and includes many things. Each person is incarnated on earth with a Light Helper. It is the human beings who, because of their dirtiness, their sins that cover their thoughts, are not receptive to the Light of their Light Helpers which they cannot feel.

The Lord had said that He had many things to tell you, but that HE could not tell you everything. He had promised to send you the Helpers, the Guides who will come to give you other teachings that will open you to other things that HE had not given.

The Lord says of these Helpers and Guides, that they will open you to those things, those details that He had not given that you do not know and that you will discover in the teachings of the Helpers and Guides. Who knew what the Lord was doing in His Life, in His Mission with all those miracles that HE was doing at every moment to help human beings? HE was surrounded by Helpers, Essentials, Guides, Ismaël, and many other servants in the Beyond.

All those around HIM knew nothing of the presence of all these Helpers HE had and the work each one was doing around Him and in His Mission.

The Lord had come to give teachings to human beings, that was His Mission on Earth. The revelations and all other forms of spiritual help to be given to human beings in their various concerns, HE had left this work to the Helpers. This work of the Helpers is to help human beings to better deepen and understand the teachings of the Lord in order to apply them in their lives. HE had given that basic fundamental spiritual knowledge which human beings need to know in their lives and with which they can explain and find an explanation for everything.

The Lord spoke of the Called Ones because HE wanted these servants on mission to be aware of who they are, of their spiritual responsibility, that they are servants of the Light on a mission to help human beings, and that they must always seek to be in the service of the Light in all that they do in their lives.

The Lord knew that the servants on mission have all the necessary and possible help to accomplish their mission. He did not want to speak too much about the Helpers, the Essentials, the Guides who accompany them in their mission so that they would not think and concentrate only on these various Helpers, and forget to activate their own faculties to develop spiritually in order to open themselves to the Light, to the various Helpers and to benefit from their help in the accomplishment of their mission.

The Lord knew that the Helpers would go into the details of what He was giving, details that would help people to better understand the teachings given by the Lord. These details are always in keeping with the teachings given by the Lord. The new is not the negation of the old.

The Lord has not only written what is in the books you have. There are other writings of the Lord that are still hidden from the readers. You also have the various books from Helper that can help you with further explanations of the Helpers.

A Light Helper is not a Spiritual Helper. She differs in her role, her work and her mission with people. She is also an envoy of the Light, but she does not work in the same way as other servants sent on mission.

Distinction Between a Light Helper and a Spiritual Helper


The Spiritual Helper is chosen and sent by the Light at a particular time in your life to help you. A person may be helped by different Spiritual Helpers at different times in their life depending on the spiritual level of their spiritual evolution. Spiritual Helpers are sent to assist human beings in their spiritual evolution.

A Light Helper is linked to the person he/she has been charged with protecting since birth. He/she does not work with or like other Spiritual Helpers. The Grace of God can be granted to some people to have the same Light Helper in several incarnations on Earth. All is grace for that help which the Light gives to a person.

All that is spiritual around you, in your life, you will not know it, and you cannot intuitively perceive it. [Your] Light Helper respects the process of the Light. He/she is linked to you for your natural protection, he/she is linked to the activities of your life, around you in relation to your spirit. He/she is luminous. He/she connects only with that which is spiritual. The nature of the Light Helper cannot be compared or related to anything else that is not spiritual….

A Light Helper is all luminous. But with the dirt, with the various bad forms of thinking that human beings can have, they cannot perceive a Light Helper. The Light Helper is always in his or her place and is always acts to help, to protect the person he/she protects.

You must not confuse what is related to darkness with what is related to Light. They are two completely different realities, two separate worlds. Some people communicate with Intelligent entities, but they cannot communicate with Light Helpers.

Darkness cannot be linked to the Essentials that act according to the Will of God. You cannot understand certain things on the Spiritual Plane.

As a Human Being, you have a limit of understanding of all that you can grasp in terms of all that help you receive from the Light.

The darkness always rushes in to give some kind of ease to people who are connected with
the other world, in order to attract more people there.

The Light gives Grace to people, it works in discretion. The main concern of a human being should be to seek rather to evolve, to reflect on what he/she is capable of understanding and putting into practice.

Because of the nature of a Light Helper, which is not like your own, you cannot feel or locate him or her.

 A LOT OF STRENGTH
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